Tomas A. Gonzalez, Ashtabula, Ohio USA originally from Brooklyn, NY

Tomas has a very bad habit and he has used this his whole life. He cheats on every woman he has ever been with, including me, numerous times.

Ladies be forwarned, he has a hook….he claims to be a flight medic for a local hospital. That is a bold faced lie because he DOES NOT WORK. He has fake uniforms, jump boots, and a fake medical pack that he claims he uses for work. He purchased all of these things from a medical supply catalog. This is his scheme. He searches you out on Plenty of Fish (that is his normal dating site he uses), however he has been known to use many others. He will claim that he is living in the same house as his ex, but they are no longer together.

He tells you that he works a lot of hours, etc and that is why it is hard to be in a relationship with him, but the truth is he has another woman at home and kids waiting for him and he plays both women. Because he has been caught cheating on numerous occassions he is not trusted by the woman he has been with for many years, and it is very difficult for him to communicate with you. Do not expect phone calls from him, he cannot do that without the girl he lives with to find out what he is doing.

He will lie about everything he can, uncluding that he is out of town and working so much that its hard for him to get in touch. **his latest is that he had knee surgery and was in the hospital for that, in cincinnati…and it goes on from there. It’s pretty pathetic.

He has run this scheme on a lot of women in the past and as I sit and write this, he is still running the scheme on another woman. He was caught cheating yet again and actually using the same lines and this poor woman is believing it and falling for it hook, line and sinker.

He has no money, no car, no job. He relies on the woman for everything he needs and when he gets caught, thinks he will get caught, or her well runs dry from giving him everything, he finds another woman and keeps her on the side so he has back up and covering his buns.

He has been known to have lots of different email addresses,yahoo names and FB pages, to keep all of the women seperate.

He is very skilled in what he does. He has a few children, 3 that I know of, and has not paid child support for any of them.

Please ladies, do NOT even give this man (if you call him a man at this point) a second glance.

Also, be forewarned, he has a violent temper and will get to the point of threatening your life. He is very controlling of you and tries his hardest to put you on the defense to take away from what he is doing.

Please, don’t allow yourself or anyone else you know tobe a victim of his emotional, or mental abuse.

He has managed to ruin a lot of lives in his path and there seems to be no stopping him.