Thomas Lott, Santa Fe Springs, CA, USA
This man is soooo good at what he does, I’ve actually considered writing a book about him. Where does one start…………
Thomas can be a really nice, charming, caring man when he wants to be…..he’s just a horrible boyfriend and husband!! I’ve spent the better part of the last 15 years trying to see the good in him and believe his stories and how’s he’s changed. Much to my dismay……he’s still the same lying, cheating, low life man he always has been. I have since spoken with is ex-wife, other girlfriends and the woman I’ve encountered along the way and we’ve all had the same experience with this man. His charm and good looks is his hook. Does all the right things in the beginning. Dinners out, cooks dinner in, likes to sing karaoke to you, (“Let’s Get It On” is his signature song ladies, watch out for it) loves sports, plays with kids, does all the little texting in the mornings and at night of how much he’s “just thinking about you” crap!! But mark my words……he has a plan. Once he gets comfortable, and you get comfortable….he’s off hunting down someone else. He’s a DJ on the side, so his gigs get him lots of play if you know what I mean. He’s very involved with the City and city events which get him lots of play. But this man will lie to your face about where he’s been and with whom. Even his own kids don’t think much of him anymore. It’s really sad. This man had nerve enough to give me his mother’s ring as a promise to engagement one of the times he asked to get back together. Said let’s try and see how this goes and we’ll eventually get married, etc….. Cried in my face how much he loves me! Funny….about two weeks later, I spoke to the dentist (female) that was taking care of his son’s dental work, and they were DATING and he gave her an engagement ring as well. This man has now seeked out my own cousin and is dating her as well. So much for family huh? Beware of Thomas Lott, he is no good to the bone. He’ll never change!