Ryan Valentine, Cleveland, Ohio
He has angry rages when he drinks.
Road rages with knives and high speed chases.
All of his women are called “Sugar” so he can’t mess up our names.
Broke – really can’t save a dime and doesn’t have the gumption to make something of himself. He has no real estate or investments.
Lies and will do so to your face until you show him the evidence. He even said his policy is to deny to the death.
His retirement plan is his parents’ estate.
Keeps is exes around as “friends” and talks about them constantly. They are all “hot” – he’ll tell you how hot he thinks they are. All the time.
He will flirt with other women right in front of you.
He’ll ask your best friend to do a 3-way.
Lazy! Don’t think he’s going to do any work. He doesn’t do anything that doesn’t benefit himself. Hires a maid to clean his 700 square feet.
Ryan comes off as professional, classy, intelligent and responsible. He’s a complete fake. Run when you see this guy. He comes on strong, like he’s never been so in love before. He’s very romantic. He used the “L” word first after just a month and a half of dating. I was surprised, but I thought that I loved him too, so I went with it. Actually, I really did. Anyway, it’s not until around that time that I find out about his illegal drug use and heavy drinking. He drinks himself impotent. He can’t have sex in the evenings because of the alcohol. But, if you’re good he’ll get you in the morning. Oh, but it’s impersonal – don’t get to emotional with this guy. He can’t handle it. The sex isn’t even that good. It’s the same thing over and over and really, he just wants you to go down on him. See, impersonal. He managed to keep himself under control for the first bit of time we dated. After about 2 months, I learned that although we talked about not seeing other people and getting off of eHarmony, I suspected something and checked him out on eHarmony. I had to renew my subscription in order to do this. Well, my gut was right. All the while he was camping with me during Labor Day weekend of 2011, he was chatting up other women. I confronted him and he said that things were just moving so fast and he got nervous. I forgave him and never threw it back in his face. I moved on with the relationship. Even before that, my first clue that I had a liar was when he originally told me that he “financed” his sister’s building. Not so – he rents an apartment from his sister. I explained to him the difference between “finance” and “rent.” Along the way he used lines like, “I”m a long term guy” “I love you” “when we’re old…” “In ten years…” “You are my best friend” “I’m a serial monogamist” etc. He brought me home to meet his parents in FL a couple of times. We even spent the holidays together. He invited me to go on a trip with his parents in Australia and New Zealand, his parents picking up the tab, so I thought this was a serious relationship. He even gave me a key to his apartment. We were always together. Once I asked him about where we were going after 11 months of dating, he said nowhere. He wants to continue to rent an apartment and be single after all that he said to me, that’s what he wants. His eHarmony profile said that marriage and children are ok – he’s “open to both!” Yes, he used the exclamation point. He played me very well. Ladies, don’t believe what he says. He’s a druggie, a drunk and a loser. In short:
Ladies, this guy is trash. Just run.