ROBERT DAVID NELSON Duluth, MN (last known)

NELSON, ROBERT DAVID – DOB: 04/06/1973 – STAY AWAY! Blond hair – I think blue or green eyes.

It has taken me way too long to post this. In short – this man gave me herpes, lied about everything but was so good at making you think he wasn’t, killed my dog, took a whole box of sleeping pills when I tried to break up with him and was committed to the mental ward for a few days after.

The details:
I dated him from fall of 2oo5 to spring of 2006. I can’t believe it lasted that long as I saw (and ignored) the red flags – I was so lonely after my divorce only 6 months prior to meeting him. Too soon to be dating. I was vulnerable and he preyed on that. He sucked me in with his lies and craziness. I basically was in his deceptive web and getting more and more brainwashed every day – but too lonely to pull out of it. The first was him telling me that oh no he had been tested for everything and he didn’t have any STDS. Then right after no condom – boom herpes! He accused me of sleeping around with others behind his back to get it – or did I ever have a cold sore ? well I must have had it all along!

Then it was pulling me away from my family and talking bad about my mom (who I am very close to). When I tried to break up with him – he acted all normal and said let’s go for one last drive together. Then when I got in his van – he starting saying if I can’t have you, no one can. There was a lot more to this but I thought he was going to drive us off the cliff we were driving to. I told him to stop the vehicle and he wouldn’t. Then he told me he took a whole box of sleeping pills. But we were at my apartment before this and I have NEVER taken sleeping pills or had them at my place. So when he showed me the box later (at my place) I realized he must have put them there and it was premeditated. I ended up having to call an ambulance cause he starting acting weird and saying he was having a heart attack and was dying and such. They put him in the mental ward for a few days.

But that wasn’t even the worst of it. The worst was him killing my dog. I had left her in his care and when I got back she was acting weird. But I had been at a bachelorette party the night before so was pretty out of it. He said he was going to take her back to my apartment (which I should have known something was up cause I always had her with me). The next morning when we went to get her she couldn’t walk. Took her to the vet and found out she had been poisoned by anti-freeze. He insisted she must have gotten into it outside somewhere or something. He made up some story of her drinking something at the beach. But the vet told me she had A LOT cause the stick turned instantly purple when the test was done and it usually takes awhile. And the fact that when I first met him he mentioned that you have to be careful because people will put out anti-freeze if a dog is a nuisance in the neighborhood. Really? Who does that!? Who kills an innocent creature! There is so much more to this but that is the worst of it. Please stay away from the absolute psycho. He needs to be in a Looney bin permanently.