Michael Mike Beck, Vista CA, USA
I came across this website and couldn’t resist posting about my ex. I want to warn all women to stay away from Michael (Mike) Beck in Vista, CA. We dated for several years and the entire time was an emotional rollercoaster. He has no feelings for anyone, laughs at your pain and misery and is verbally and emotionally abusive. Nothing I did was ever good enough but I kept trying to please him. He made me feel like I was going crazy. We broke up because he started cheating on me. I should have seen the red flags; especially when he asked if he could have sex with her because he wasn’t satisfied at home but he would come home to me because he loved me, but it was my first real relationship and I thought I was in love. In hindsight, I honestly believe she was being lied to as well even though I couldn’t see it at the time. He would constantly belittle me and make me feel as if I was unattractive and no one else would ever want me. He was the unattractive one, with his huge hole in his chest, small hands and tiny penis. He is so self-conscious about the hole in his chest and he should be because it is disgustng. I thought I was in love so I didn’t want to be mean so I used to tell him that I liked it because it gave me a place to rest my head but honestly it disgusted me. Even after we broke up I continued to go back to him and got pregnant. When he found out I was pregnant the nightmare really began. I had hopes of us getting back together but that didn’t happen. He played so many mind games with me until I finally gave into what he wanted and had the abortion (now I’m glad I did). He is a keen manipulator and will do or say anything he can to get what he wants. To the outside world and his friends he puts on an act and everyone that meets him thinks he is the greatest guy ever. They think he is funny and charming but watch out if you develop feelings for him because he will change. Also, forget about ever doing anything you want to do, once again it is all about him and his wants/needs. Even the sex was always how he wanted it. He had bizarre fantasies that I felt forced to act out otherwise it would cause an argument or the silent treatment for days. The sex wasn’t even that good and I already mentioned his penis is tiny, I know girls say this sometimes when they get upset but in his case it is true. Also, the only way he will communicate is through text message (I guess so he has time to think of his response and how he can turn everything around on you and make it your fault). I have never apologized to anyone as much as I did him for things that weren’t even my fault. He will not talk on the phone (he says he doesn’t like to) and he will never discuss anything face to face like a real man would. I cannot stress enough to please watch out for this guy. I know he will say all the right things (to get you into bed), seem interested in your stories (only to use them against you later and then complain you ramble on endlessly about nothing), take you out to have fun (only to take everything away and never do anything you want to again) and he will seem like the best guy you have ever met (by showering you with attention) but trust me he isn’t. You will be on a rollercoaster ride from hell if you get mixed up with him and it will take you years to break away and start building your life over. I know I wasn’t perfect but I didn’t deserve the hell he put me through and the years it has taken me to recover. No girl deserves to go through this so if you ever meet up with him RUN FOR YOUR LIFE! Do not make the same mistake I did. Guys like him need to be put in their place and be stopped so they can’t continue to hurt women. It feels good to have the last laugh knowing I shared my story because he would be devastated if he knew I ruined his image and exposed who he really is.