Meagan Elaine Jenkins Brandon, Fl USA
The Good, The Bad, The Ugly! These three kind words are exactly my description of the person I met back in July 2011 and had a very turbulent relationship with. I have used this site before and after months of thinking, it starts making alot more sense of what she did and intended to do to me as a person. I met Meagan off of a website called Plenty of Fish, but it should be called plently of crap, cause thats what I found. From the day I met her, all she was interested in was the amount of money I made and a place to stay away from her controlling mother. Despite meeting her while she was 4 months pregnant, I played the good fiance and took care of her, rubbed her belly, rubbed her feet after a hard days work and took care of her. We took out of town trips, nice dinners, she received flowers every other day from me, and I left work to drive 25 miles to bring her medicine and she was treated to a romantic outing as often as possible and we were in heaven together. Where it all went wrong is when she appeared before me in October and told me that her mother wants her home all the time because that’s what she wanted. From that point on, this relationship was in peril. Kristin Ann Lamar was the #1 reason for our relationship going south, amongst other things. Since Meagan Elaine Jenkins was 18 years old, she has seen her trouble with the law on way too many occasions. She admitted being arrested 4 times for multiple things and she was fired from two jobs for stealing money. When we spoke of this in the beginning of the relationship, it appeared I had found me a very bad girl with a huge criminal past, bad ass tattoos all over her and a set of fake “breasts” that were paid for in a past relationship. To me, I thought I could be her savior and give her a man that would actually gicve a crap about her. In her past relationships, she was controlled, treated like crap and for the first time in her very young life, she finally found a man that wanted to make things about her, treat her good and love her. For whatever reason that god and her only know, she strayed away from me and chose the control of her mother and the love of her ex boyfriend, who got her pregnant to begin with. Meagan, lets make things very clear! You can choose all that over me, thats fine! But, if the intention to be with me was never there, why did you continously ask me for money for gas, or concert tickets, or use my money to pay your toll bills, or fines? I can never understand how you say you never used me when it is clear that was your intention from the very beginning. I can’t fathom meeting a worse person than yourself, except for Kasey Anthony. Look at your facebook Meagan! There are over 200-300 of pictures that you have taken of yourself. If that isn’t a selfish person, i dont know what is? When you were on my facebook as my partner, alot of people told me they did not like you cause when going through your facebook page, they notices the pics of just you and all the poses…tehy told me that you were nothing buy trouble, and man…they were right. You are by far the most selfish person I have seen in my entire life and that includes your mother! Your mother is a huge part of who you are and why your sister (Tori Jenkins) got pregnant and basically gave her baby away. She was afraid of your mother and hid the truth from everyone. You have done the same by hiding the fact that you were arrested at Walmart and pled no contest to Petit Theft (case no.10-024133). Why are you two so afraid of your mother? It’s the #1 reason why I couldn’t be with you anymore and had to walk away. You are so far up your mothers ass, I dont know where you begin and she ends. I realize you are 27 years old and just had a baby out of wed lock and are basically stuck with your mother under her house, but you are an adult. Accept some responsibility and move on with your life. Do you wanna be 50 years old and living with your mother and basically doing everything she wants you to do? You once told me that raising a baby is hard and you have to work, but Meagan..are you kidding me right now? Thousands and thousands of women have babies and multiple babies and they live on their own, have jobs, mortgages and bills and they all do fine on their own. Stop acting like we should all feel sorry for you when you are the dumb ass who spread her legs with no protection and you stopped taking birth control and got pregnant on a night where you and this Chris character got drunk and conceived. This is your fault and you have to live with it…you act like you are the only woman in the world with a baby and we should bow down to you….screw that!!! GROW UP!!!! I even threw a few bones your way by having Napa offer you an assistant manager position, but I was told you were not interested. I have done everything I can to get you a job, but you were never interested in leaving Cracker Barrel and that is one of the many reasons I walked away from this relationship after trying to make this work with you. After being raised with no father figure in your life, I am left to assume you will never see what the life of a happy woman will be with a loving man. I was willing to give you and Lily a life of happiness, luxury and love and you chose a life of welfare, unhappiness, your controlling mother, a monthly child Support check & most of all, a roof over your head despite the environment. It’s not a knock on you at all, but some people have no ambition in life to want to do any better for themselves or their daughter. I was willing to provide you a new house (3 times larger than your moms), a new car, a new job and a new life that would have made things perfect for you, but like my friends always say, you can bring the girl out of the trailer, but you cant bring the trailer out of the girl. I chose to walk away for many reasons, but you are the first woman I have ever dated that had no career, lived with her mother, didn’t have any friends and most of all, was nothing but selfish about her and only her. Remember the time when I told you I wanted to talk to you because you were ignoring me for weeks and your response to that was, ” I dont have time for your feelings”! Noone would ever say that to anyone but you and for that, I really started seeing the true person you were. Your mother is to blame for raising you the wrong way and its a shame cause you are a beautiful woman, but you are so ugly inside, it makes you look very awful. Now that your haircut matches your attitude, the complete you is now present. Regardless of the Good, the Bad and the Ugly, you will always provide a miserable environment for anyone who is in your path. I remember when you would sit at the mall with me and make fun of everyone but yourself. You think you are perfect and better than everyone but in reality, you hate your life, you hate being broke and you hate the fact that your mom runs your life and you once told me that I was perfect for you and you were lucky. You were right, you were lucky to have met me and you will never find anyone like me again who will provide you with a safe and comfortable environment. Those first 4 months we were together were magic and thats the Meagan I will always remember, but that person is dead inside and she no longer exists and I truly hope you are living this life you chose cause a homeless person wouldn’t trade spots with you at all. Now that your mom got her promotion, its more incentive for you to stay home cause now she can afford you and Lily to stay home. Just lay off Tim a little please…that poor guy is taking a beating in his wallet from you and Tori and I will never forget what he told me in the Mall when he was shopping for you (go figure). He told me that your brother Will did not like him and he never understood that. But, when it came to your mother, she is definitely controlling when it came to the marriage and they fought alot, but when he said” About Meagan, good luck with that…your hands are full”, thats when I decided to go home and not spend the day with you. I actually contemplated leaving you then and should have, but I felt sorry for you and Lily and I stayed. I am over what you did to me, I am over what I thought we had, and I will never forgive you for using me to your advantage. I will admit you deserve an Oscar for suckering me into getting you that Coach purse when you truly never wanted to be with me. Also, you not wearing your engagement ring all the time was another joke and you are so selfish Meagan, that I bet $1000 that you look at yourself in the mirror and argue with your own concience over who is better. You are the devil in sheeps clothing and Walmart, Publix, myself and many more have been your victims and I just hope it stops after the birth of this baby you have. Regardless of how you think you are better than everyone, you are really not. Look at your life in someone elses shoes and truly realize you are on the bottom looking up and thats the way you want your life to be. Thats the way you want your daughters life to be and that is how it is. Didn’t you once respond to me after asking you why you cheated, “It Happens!”. Well, Meagan…your life will always be nothing because you chose this life and you chose to be under your Mommy’s rule cause “It Happens”. What goes around will always come back around and what I have heard at Cracker Barrel and on facebook and through others is that you are unhappy and you will always be that way. Funny how we both have gone in opposite directions since I walked away back in early March. I am a home owner, new car owner and have a good woman now in my life. I will admit I miss some things about you, but they are physical, lol!!! How sad is that! During our relationship, you offered nothing, gave nothing and you took alot. Sound familiar? Maybe like when you were younger and kept stealing from others? Will you ever change Meagan? If you think stealing, and lying and taking from others makes you sleep at night, more power to you, but you wont take from me anymore…no Sir! After all is said and done, now I know why you wanna hate me! The answer to that is: Cause hate is all the world has seen lately!
I am a survivor of Meagan Elaine Jenkins just as Walmart and Publix and your ex boyfriends…we all now have a common sixth degree of seperation and you are it. Im not proud of it, but I know that you will live life miserable and I will be who i was before I met you and I want to personally thank you for cheating, lying and presenting the real you in the relationship because if we were together today, I would be miserable. It was an honor cherishing you, worshipping you and giving you a great life for the few months we had, but it wasn’t enough to lower the bar for my expectations and I deserve better. You will never find anyone like me or ever hear about anyone like me again and for several months, you were in the arms of an angel and now you are outside looking in and maybe you can etch that in your tombstone one day, “Here lies my life, regretting that Shawn left me cause I was too selfish!” You my friend, must live with that everyday and I may not be perfect like you Meagan, but I know one thing you dont…how to have fun and be on my own. Good Luck in your miserable world of games, selfishness and untruthfulness…..sorry Meagan Elaine Jenkins, but game over! ——RalphLauren