Kevin Farnham Decatur, IL U.S.
I was with this POS for 4 long years…I thought I’d found a dream man but instead found a nightmare. I was used for money and sex and when those two things weren’t in play I was treated like crap. I never got an I Love you, a card, a happy birthday, a dinner, a movie, a flower, a gift, nothing. Plus, after he’d come over to my house and we’d have sex, the next day he wanted NOTHING to do with me. He’d ignore me all the time when I’d text him. i couldn’t call him because HE NEVER TOLD ANYBODY WE WERE TOGETHER. Not his family, not his co workers not his friends. The first yr we were together he dumped me ten times because there was always somebody “better” (including a fugly crackhead named Jennifer). The second yr he dumped me for my NIECE and then cheated on her with HER BEST FRIEND. All the while telling me he still wanted me. Then, he begged me to come back, and like the fool that I was, I did. I spent THOUSANDS of dollars on this ahole because he’d sweet talk me into staying, saying it was hard for him to say I LOVE YOU yet he’d spout it to my niece like he was saying hello. He also told me after the second year he’d stay forever if I would bring other women into the relationship (meaning 3somes). I can’t believe I talked myself into believing this warped relationship was ok. i was LOYAL for 4 years but i didn’t get the same courtesy. For the last 6 months he’s really been ignoring me worse than usual so my radar went off all the time. See he thought he was clever and could hide it but he always gave lil hints that were other girls around. Of course he always denied cheating. Then, this last week i found out he’d had some fat blonde going up to his work for MONTHS on his lunch breaks. Lunch breaks that he told me he’d stopped taking. the irony of all this is, he dumped me because I made HIM miserable. lmao. ya ok. Just because I’d send bitchy texts when I’d get fed up with his bullshit. I’m glad he’s gone. When i write all this out I really can’t believe I’d thought this relationship was ok. i hope him and Tubbo are very happy together. Get ready, honey, you’ve just taken my place so now you’re going to be the one he takes all his crappy moods out on. After about 2 months you’ll see why you should’ve left him in the FRIEND zone