Eric Fawcett Cary NC
BEWARE – physically abusive. I’m still kicking myself for not seeing the signs – hitting his son (drawing blood), emotional abuse, jealousy, moodiness. Grabbed me and threw me 4 months into our relationship. Why? Because called him on abusing his son! He even admitted to hitting another woman. This is his M.O. He seems like a teddy bear at first, but he is an angry abusive person.
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Interesting stuff here. I’m a friend of Donica’s, I also saw the bruises, which were awfully dark for having been “placed on” the bed as was speculated above. The point is, and has been said before…whether you put the bruises on her by throwing her, shoving her, or “placing” her, this person should not have touched her in the first place. I would think that someone who had experienced behavior issues in others would know to phone the police, not try to manhandle someone.
The story doesn’t wash. It doesn’t fit Donica’s character, and frankly it sounds like just another excuse from someone who acted in a violent manner and is now trying to justify his actions.
Beth (again Admin are you checking IP addresses? you are correct about one thing, I should have called the police the only reason I didn’t was because her kids were coming back from their dad’s within a day or two and I didn’t want their mom in jail for assault. Of course Donica didn’t call the police either because she was drunk, I had blood streaming down my face and a witness.
How long have you know Donica? Since before or after the Protective Restraining order was taken out against her? Please see the comments above where her best friend admitted “worrying about her drinking” in an email to me (which I can post) or ask that same friend about Donica’s last Christmas where she was too wasted to wrap her own kids presents.
Please check your quotes too, I never used “placed”. If you had any first hand knowledge of what had happened you know that Donica was drunk, drinking at the pool hall and then half a bottle of rum on her own at my house, refused repeated requests to leave my home and then in the only act of violence that had any intent of harm that occurred that night, attacked me unprovoked when I tried to get my glasses.
I appreciate my friends who posted on my behalf. Just to make sure this info isn’t swallowed up in the comments, I am reposting the link to the pictures:
https://picasaweb.google.com/donicamclean/EricF?authkey=Gv1sRgCJjxz9i1ge_3Tw#
“Another Character Witness” If this is John (and not Donica posting on her on behalf, Admin are you checking IP addresses?) why not just use your real name?
Contrary to your statement, you don’t have “first hand knowledge of this incident” as you weren’t there for the 3 hours that Donica terrorized my son and I and refused to leave my home after being asked repeatedly.
What you have is picking up Donica at 3 in the morning because she was too drunk to drive and her lies about what transpired.
You’ve never seen Donica “drink irresponsibly”? You seem like a nice guy so I’m going to assume this is a memory lapse because you want to help your friend because I can remember talking to Donica on the phone with her being slurring drunk after being out with you.
The only “violence” with the intent of causing harm that took place that night was Donica’s drunken, unprovoked attack on me. If you had actually witnessed the incident you’d know that.
I’m done defending myself for being Eric’s victim of physical abuse.
My contact information is available above for anyone who wants to be put in touch the several different people who posted on my behalf.
Just to make sure this info isn’t swallowed up in the comments, I am reposting the link to the pictures:
https://picasaweb.google.com/donicamclean/EricF?authkey=Gv1sRgCJjxz9i1ge_3Tw#
For anyone who is not computer savvy who wants to see all comments, including from the person who picked me up minutes after Eric’s abuse (when he claims I was wasted), click “Older Comments” in blue, on the left, at the end of all the comments.
Again, to make sure this info isn’t swallowed up in the comments, I am reposting the link to the pictures:
https://picasaweb.google.com/donicamclean/EricF?authkey=Gv1sRgCJjxz9i1ge_3Tw#
This woman was drunk in my home and refused my repeated requests to leave. After I realized she had drank even more by finishing half a bottle of rum from my liquor cabinet (by herself) I offered her a bedroom or the couch which she also refused. She refused my offers to drive her home as well. She terrorized my teenage son and I in our own home and attacked me from behind unprovoked (see link to images below).
Need to know more about her character and integrity? Google “Donica McLean Gibsonville” for the newspaper articles concerning the Protective Restraining Order that was taken out against her.
https://picasaweb.google.com/lh/photo/fNiofi4xFpwEWbmSFw1JqQ?feat=directlink
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NOTE TO DONICA FROM REPORT YOUR EX ADMIN: STOP REPOSTING THE SAME COMMENT OVER AND OVER AGAIN. Your link to your picasa account in reference to your stated situation is on this page in several sections of the comments under this Ex Report. Enough is enough. We will not be posting your comments unless you have something new to say. All you are doing is filliing this Ex Report with more and more of the same thing.
If this Eric fellow did abuse his son at one time, “drawing blood” (and if Donica called him out on it), the the son should SPEAK UP NOW, if he’s old enough to do so, to tell the truth, not let his father continue to abuse or negate Donica’s truth-telling. All truth comes to light, eventually.
I think this site is wonderful. I love the fact that you can find information on people that you are considering dating or hiring or whatever to find out if they are potentially dangerous. (What a great way to protect yourself and warn others of potential danger!) Thank you to everyone to takes time to post something that may be helpful to others and help them avoid scary situations.
However, you’ll find the drawback if you read the User Policy. They don’t have a way to verify that the information is correct and they rely on the people posting the information to be honest and not post exaggerations or false information out of retaliation or a desire for attention.
Certainly this post is a red flag and I told Eric that if I didn’t know him and I googled him and found this, I would probably steer clear of him myself. But I do know him, so I want to take a moment to tell you about my experiences with him.
Eric has been a coworker and my good friend for over 5 years and I have been to his house many times. I know his son and I know about a lot of the struggles that Eric has gone through as a single parent. I will say that I have been impressed time and time again with the amount of effort Eric puts into trying to help his son and it is clear that he deeply loves him. In fact, Eric seems to have no limit to what he will do for someone he loves, which I consider very admirable. I have always found Eric to be very sensitive, kind, thoughtful and considerate; he’s always been a gentleman to me. I love that he’s very intelligent, proactive, innovative and he makes me laugh. He’s a great coworker and really a wonderful guy. If I wasn’t madly in love with my boyfriend, I would certainly consider Eric a wonderful prospect to date. I say all of this because if you are a person that is reading this and trying to form a judgement on Eric based on what you are reading in this post, I ask that you step back for a moment and consider that you likely don’t know anyone that is posting in here (except perhaps Eric), so you don’t really know what the truth of the matter is.
I know that “there are 3 sides to every story: yours, mine and the truth”. I was not there, so I can’t tell you what my version of the truth is for this particular situation, but I can tell you that, knowing Eric the way I do, I find this accusation very hard to believe. Certainly, if your inner voice says to steer clear of someone, you should listen to that. But if you are trying to form a judgement based on what you are reading here, I would suggest that you take this with a grain of salt and get to know Eric and form your own opinions.
Kind Regards,
Laura
By the way, when searching for this post to reply to it after creating a user ID, I found this post from another person vouching for Eric. I thought this should be connected to this post:
http://reportyourex.com/ex-report/eric-fawcett-apex-nc/ (Eric Fawcett Apex NC)
This post was from someone who dated Eric for a number of years, so hopefully her words will also help to clarify this.