Donica Mclean Carrboro NC
BEWARE – physically abusive. Her ex-husband (and his wife) had a domestic violence protective order taken out against her (see below and/or Google “Donica McLean Gibsonville” for the newspaper articles). I made the mistake of giving her the benefit of doubt and suffered greatly for it.
On our final evening as a couple she drank excesively (very), became belligerant, refused to leave my home (after repeated requests) and terrorized my teenage son and I for over three hours (continuing even after I left MY OWN HOME for nearly an hour in an effort to difuse the situation). She ended the evening by physically attacking me from behind leaving me with scars on my face. Now 5 months later she continues to harass me on this web site.
This woman has three failed marriages and who knows how many failed relationships. She is deceptive at first and seems nice enough but quickly shows her mean streak and vindictiveness.
I’m posting this to warn others not to make the same mistake I did. I’ve spent my entire life trying to to be a good person and do the right thing by people only to have it destroyed by this woman anytime anyone googles me.
Times-News, 2010-01-22
“According to court documents, McLean allegedly was angry and abusive toward the children.
She allegedly made phone calls and sent e-mails threatening to take the children away from him. She also is accused of harassing and making false allegations against {REMOVED BY ADMIN}.”
She also is know as; Donica McLean, Donica Gentes, Donica Lancaster, Donica Wedding, CarrboroDoni on Match
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Need To Report Your Ex?
Eric posted this in response to the fact that I first reported his abuse here many months ago right after the incident happened. He has excoriated me repeatedly since with progressively wilder stories in an attempt to justify his physical abuse. Here are the pictures from the incident:
https://picasaweb.google.com/donicamclean/EricF?authkey=Gv1sRgCJjxz9i1ge_3Tw#
Please read my original post (search Eric Fawcett, Cary)where Eric admits to starting the physical altercation and then reapproaching me as I gathered my things to leave. Conversely, I patently deny his desperate and twisted version of the story.
In the original post, you’ll see the comments of my friend who spoke to me at length just minutes after the incident and picked me up shortly thereafter. He posted that I showed no signs of intoxication. I have 3 other friends who posted on my behalf as well, including my ex-husband.
The protective order Eric refers to was hastily rescinded by my other ex, and was an ill-advised maneuver in a custody battle which I won (if you read the wording of the order, which is the only accurate thing in Eric’s post, it’s pretty obvious that this is true, there’s not even any allegation of “physical” abuse). I now have custody of my children, whom I never even spanked, much less hit. If you google me, you’ll see only excerpts from the paper. That’s because the paper voluntarily removed the link when they knew the whole story.
In the my original post, you can find my email address and you’re free to inquire or be put in touch with the people who posted on my behalf.
Also, if you google me, please note that I am active in my community, I belong to book groups, and I graduated Summa Cum Laude from UNCG. Eric has no degree, which is no matter except that he lied on Match.com saying he did. He was a liar from the start, and I’m not the only person he abused. Again, see my other post. I’m no longer checking this site and only became aware of this because my ex-husband pointed it out. He’s been checking periodically since posting for me as a character witness.
The reason Eric grabbed and threw me is that I told him he should not be abusing his son, whom he hit in the face several times and made bleed. This was not the first time that Eric abused him. I find it ironic that Eric would desperately bring an unrelated and erroneous allegation of abuse against me, since his life plays out like a never-ending episode of “C.O.P.S.”
After abusing me (in his story, because I “wouldn’t leave”), Eric then went and dragged his son out of bed and then followed me out into his yard and would not let me leave, saying he would call the police if I tried because I had been drinking. Eric and I both had both been drinking, so I locked myself in my car and called my friend.
You can see more of how Eric’s own story contradicts itself if you go to the original post and see his bizarre and rambling responses. If you do that, the situation will speak for itself.
To the admin of this site: I’m not sure why you allowed Eric to post this obviously retaliatory story, especially after you asked me to stop reposting repetetive information (to which I immediately complied).
However, now that you have let him have his say (by “reporting me” 5 1/2 months after the fact) and allowed me to respond, I respectfully request that you put an end to this and disallow further posts by either one of us. I think it’s clear that we’ve both said our piece.
Donica is outright lying and everyone that was there that witnessed the incident knows it. In my very short time with Donica I saw her blackout drunk at LEAST three times and this night was one of those times. Her best friend even emailed me and “worried” about her drinking.
The night in question she had beer, tequila (her switch to tequila was what started the argument) and then drank half a bottle of rum in 45 minutes (I had 4 beers over 5 hours). She is correct that I wouldn’t let her drive drunk, because she could of killed herself or someone else, which is why my son and I offered to drive her home (which she refused repeatedly).
The photo of a 3 day old fading bruise that Donica likes to plaster all over this site is from when I grabbed her arm to stop her drunken, unprovoked attack on me in my own home. The attack, which I stopped by grabbing her arm, resulted in a 4 inch scar down the side of my face (see photo 17 days after the fact: https://picasaweb.google.com/lh/photo/fNiofi4xFpwEWbmSFw1JqQ?feat=directlink).
Please do read the entry that she started this with on this site, read it all and notice the blackout inconsistancies in her story; She was afraid and never heckled my son and I in our car, then she did heckle us but it was just a joke. She didn’t scratch my face, then she might have scratched it. She was “terrified” but didn’t “feel” like driving home. I won’t recount the whole incident, you can read the other entry, but suffice to say even her post here is riddled with lies.
As for her “friends” posting on her behalf, there’s no checking on this site if it was a “friend” or not and even if there were; Donica, me and my son were the only ones there. Her ex-husband #3 who supposedly posted on her behalf and told her about this is on this site too.
As she suggested, please do Google her and pay particular attention to the protective restraining order ex-husband #2 took out against her long after their divorce. I posted this to warn others about the TRUTH of what happened that night; 3 ex-husbands, a restraining order and this. Just a coincidence? You can decide whether she’s worth the chance, she’s not. You will regret it, just as I do.