Diego von Vacano

FORMAL RETRACTION POSTED April 24, 2011

FROM ADMIN: Below is a formal retraction submitted by the original poster of this Ex Report. We have no grounds to believe that either the original Ex Report which has now been replaced with this retraction is either true or untrue. Furthermore, we know not whether or not this formal retraction is either true or untrue. IP and EMAIL verification have been made to a point where we are comfortable in believing that the individual whom submitted the retraction is the same person whom submitted the original Ex Report.  The retraction will be in place of the original Ex Report, however, the post itself will remain online. The formal retraction by the submitter will begin with and end with <—-Signifier—->. All content within those two titles are content submitted by the Ex Report poster for their formal retraction.

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This statement is to retract the previous report in regard to my perspective of this man. The following includes the reasons why the original report was submitted as well as why I wish for its retraction. As in any new relationship, there are invariably many questions and unknowns as two people become romantically involved with one another and in getting to know each other. Unfortunately, I believe that after much reflection I have failed to appreciate the full dynamic and communication that ensued on my part. I have always been very shy, especially with dating and was unable to honestly communicate and express myself fully and completely with this person I was involved with. My interpersonal communication skills are not the best, especially since the death of my mother, which has caused me to not want to speak to hardly anyone at all. Because I have had very little courage to face anybody, including this man, I did not adequately address questions related to my misperception of him and this relationship.

It is still my hope to be able to talk and possibly amend this relationship. We both knew that we would eventually separate due to his career relocation. My unfair reported submitted possibly stems from a Cinderella type syndrome which affects my expectations in that they may far exceed what life’s realities can honestly offer. Another reason for this retraction is that I cannot make such previous statement without a full and thorough discussion to potentially uncover the majority of all misunderstanding. This is a crucial step in learning how to have a relationship, rather have it all one sided. My feelings for this person did not vanish in an inkling and thus I do not want to inadvertently hurt him out of ignorance. One does not know what fate unfolds, and this could very well be a lesson in patience and trust, rather than presumptions in absolutes. Negativity in anybody’s life is like a cancer and is not a sincere approach in the resolve of my fears in this relationship that I experienced. Because I find it difficult to express myself in dating relationships with the opposite sex, I believe that I utilized blame, rather than concentrate on the steps to take to see this more transparently and in resolution of my confusion and fears regarding what took place within this relationship.

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