Amit Marwaha
FORMAL RETRACTION POSTED August 18, 2011
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I’m writing this retraction statement regarding Amit Marwaha (2/14/1978), because it’s time to close the chapter and move on. What Amit did to me was not very nice. But, I think that what he did may not have been intentional: he was simply confused at the time, and didn’t seem to know what he wanted. I was very upset when I first reported him on this side, but I’m not a vindictive person, and I think it’s important to know how to forgive in life. Everybody makes mistakes in life and relationships, and I think both Amit and I made plenty of them in our past relationship.
I accept responsibility for 50% of what had happened. I should have known better than to get involved with Amit on the first place. We were incompatible on almost all levels, and I knew it from the beginning. Yet, I was not strong enough, and I let myself to be sweet-talked into a relationship that was doomed from the start. I’m glad it’s over – I think we would have been both very unhappy had we stayed together.
This relationship was a great learning experience for me, and I will certainly apply the lessons I’ve learned from it into my future relationships. I’ve learned that compatibility is extremely important: on all levels – intellectual, spiritual, political, and sexual. At the same time, no one is perfect, and people should appreciate and respect each other for who they are (with their flaws and imperfections) and not try to change and control each other. Every couple has disagreements and argues sometimes, and those who don’t are lying or they are not communicating. It’s HOW you argue and resolve the differences that determine a successful relationship.
So, it’s time to let go. Whatever happened is in the past, and Karma will take care of it; I don’t need to. I’m wishing good luck to Amit and his future endeavors.
“An-eye-for-an-eye-for-an-eye-for-an-eye … ends in making everybody blind.” – Mahatma Gandhi.
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PS. We dated almost for 2 years, during which time he was telling me how much he loved me, that he was thinking about marrying me – up to the day he got his friend to insult me. I didn’t know if I’m hallucinating or what. I felt like I’m in the Dr. Jekyll/Mr. Hyde movie. And I even paid for this – I paid $300 plane ticket to visit him, only to be insulted and dumped.
4 months later, he claimed “he could not forget me” and how sorry he was for what he’s done, and begged me to give him another chance. Again, he was saying how we could get married, wanted me to move with him to NYC (all the while as he was on plentyoffish.com actively dating and denying it). He promised he will visit me in my homecity (we dated long-distance for some time), and we would discuss our relationship and future -and then he “missed” the plane. He never appologized for it, and when I objected to his behavior, he just plainly dumped me via email on Christmas – only 3 weeks after he was ready to buy me Burberry boots, almost crying on the phone how much he missed me…He should go to Hollywood – great acting!
Interestingly, my cat never liked him – in fact, I’ve never seen my cat react to anyone like when she saw him: hissing, growling, hiding…. But, she likes my new boyfriend, so I’m hoping now I’m making a better choice
Helpful link to the future girlfriends/wife(s):
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ikouCKUwQ1Y&feature=related
This is a retraction statement:
I’m writing this retraction statement regarding Amit Marwaha (2/14/1978), because it’s time to close the chapter and move on. What Amit did to me was not very nice. But, I think that what he did may not have been intentional: he was simply confused at the time, and didn’t seem to know what he wanted. I was very upset when I first reported him on this side, but I’m not a vindictive person, and I think it’s important to know how to forgive in life. Everybody makes mistakes in life and relationships, and I think both Amit and I made plenty of them in our past relationship.
I accept responsibility for 50% of what had happened. I should have known better than to get involved with Amit on the first place. We were incompatible on almost all levels, and I knew it from the beginning. Yet, I was not strong enough, and I let myself to be sweet-talked into a relationship that was doomed from the start. I’m glad it’s over – I think we would have been both very unhappy had we stayed together.
This relationship was a great learning experience for me, and I will certainly apply the lessons I’ve learn from it into my future relationships. I’ve learned that compatibility is extremely important: on all levels – intellectual, spiritual, political, and sexual. At the same time, no one is perfect, and people should appreciate and respect each other for who they are (with their flaws and imperfections) and not try to change and control each other. Every couple has disagreements and argues sometimes, and those who don’t are lying or they are not communicating. It’s HOW you argue and resolve the differences that determine a successful relationship.
So, it’s time to let go. Whatever happened is in the past, and Karma will take care of it; I don’t need to. I’m wishing good luck to Amit and his future endeavors.
“An-eye-for-an-eye-for-an-eye-for-an-eye … ends in making everybody blind.” – Mahatma Gandhi.