Alexander McCauley, Ames, IA, USA
Alex is a serial cheater and master manipulator. He uses girls to make himself feel validated, but as soon as something goes wrong or the relationship passes out of the honeymoon phase, he assumes the relationship is beyond help and seeks out a new girl without ever telling the first girl that he is done with her. He can drag relationships out for months and pretend everything is fine or that he is just unworthy of the first girl because he can’t pay her the kind of attention she deserves. He does this until the girl finds out about the cheating, then he waits for her to break up with him because he is too much of a coward to tell the truth. He always gets girls by acting incredibly charming, sweet and caring. He will freely discuss his ex-girlfriends, but he will twist the stories to make it sound as though he was innocent or at least his fault was justifiable because of the way the girl behaved. He will accept all kinds of loving behavior but never reciprocate in any meaningful way. He is also a notorious man-whore, and seeks sex without shame. If you refuse to sleep with him, he gets impatient or in the worst case scenario will tell you that he feels guilty that you are more selective about those with whom you have sex than he is and basically blames you for it. On top of all of those things, he lies to EVERYONE, including his own family. He covers up his own despicable behavior with excuses or lies to prevent others from finding about the cheating. Avoid this sociopathic, predatory bastard at all costs, do not fall for his charm and lies. If you do, you will end up with a shattered heart and he will just keep repeating this cycle. Do not assume that you will be the exception, because there has never ever been an exception, and he has had some pretty stellar ex-girlfriends. He could be dating a girl with Megan Fox’s looks, Einstein’s brain, Paula Deen’s cooking and Jenna Jameson’s skills in the bedroom, but he would still cheat because he doesn’t know how to have an adult relationship. He makes commitments he can never keep, and because of that he will never have a fulfilling relationship and will probably die alone unless he finds someone who is so desperately insecure that she can accept his constant infidelity and passive abuse.