Some Don’ts After A Break Up

Some Basic Rules Of A Break Up

First and foremost, you have to remember that you are not with that person anymore.  There are reasons behind the break up.  You need to follow some simple rules of a break up if you want to keep yourself out of hot water.  Most of the time, you are better broken up anyhow.  The last thing that you need to do is put yourself in a position where you are keeping this person around in your life longer than needed.  Don’t waste your time with this person.

Calling Ex After Break Up

Are you calling your ex after the break up?  STOP!  This will not lead to anything but more trouble.  All you’re doing is keeping someone around that you don’t need/want.  You are prolonging what should be a clean break and turning it into a drawn out endeavor.  This is no good for you mentally or emotionally.  Furthermore, it isn’t any good for your ex either.  All it does is bring two people together that shouldn’t be together.

Still Sleeping With My Ex

I’m still sleeping with my ex, is that a bad thing?  Well, let’s see.  You broke up with them because you didn’t want to be with them, and now you are sleeping with them.  Hmm…..it sure doesn’t sound like a good idea.  What if your ex is hoping that you are sleeping with them because there are still hopes of the two of you working it out?  This is a recipe for disaster.  By doing this you are putting yourself in a really bad position that will make you out to look like a much worse person than you really are.  And if your ex broke up with you, it sounds like you might be getting used yourself.  Stop sleeping with your ex.

Arguing With Ex

You’re arguing with ex, still?  How is that even possible?  Didn’t the two of you break up?  Why would you allow yourself to be sucked into an argument with an ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend?  This doesn’t even make sense.  Arguments are never good.  Guess what?  You don’t have to argue with your ex; you broke up.  The two of you aren’t an item anymore.  There is no reason that you should still be subject to arguments with them.  Let them argue with someone else.  Stop wasting your time on negative conversations with someone you don’t even fully have in your life anymore.

Ex Still Texts Me

My ex still texts me, what should I do?  This one is simple; don’t reply.  Don’t text your ex back.  Not even to say “hello”.  Even if they try to engage in some kind of meaningless banter with you, don’t text your ex back.  Especially worse, don’t respond if they make accusations.  Sometimes, an ex will text you just because they want attention and they feel like you are someone who will still give them that attention.  Sometimes, they will text you just to see if they still have some sort of power over you.  Don’t waste your time.  Your ex is not worth your time.

Emailing Ex

This one is easy.  Do you want to know what to do about emailing your ex?  Very simple, read the above paragraph titled “ex still texts me”.  The same rules apply for this one folks.  Don’t do it.  There is no point.

My Ex Is Ignoring Me

Perfect!  You win the jackpot.  I love it when my ex is ignoring me.  I wish it happened all the time.  It’s always best when your ex is ignoring you.  Then you don’t have to think about them and all the bullshit they put you through.  You should ignore your ex as well.  Move on, get over it.  Do what you need to do and get some closure on the matter.  Your ex can be replaced (sorry to all of you lovebirds who think that there is only ONE person for everyone).  There are plenty of fish in the sea, go catch one and start a new and exciting relationship.  Start the best relationship of your life…and enjoy it!