Q&A: Dreams about boyfriend cheating?
Query by Charlotte G: Dreams about boyfriend cheating?
I’ve had about 5 dreams of my boyfriend cheating on me. I know he is faithful, due to the fact frankly we usually hang out collectively. We’ve been collectively for 2 years.
The dreams consist of he and I hanging out with each other, then he disappears, and i uncover him and he’s speaking to one more girl. When I say something, he breaks up with me and laughs at me.
I had one particular last night and I woke up crying and sweating truly undesirable. In the dream, we have been in Canada(he is currently in canada driving truck… cdl driver), and we were purchasing a house. We were at the keep, and he saw some girl he knew. He invited her back to our property. I was doing one thing in the residence, and I seem up and he’s hugging her, like a boyfriend would hug a girlfriend, and I scoffed. He told me to get more than it. So then he pulls me into a area and provides me this extended speech about why we need to break up.
Most of the girls are brunettes, because he likes brunettes. The girl in the most current dream, had sandy blonde hair, and had tattoos on her arm. I know he likes tattoos.
I know these should not bother me, since I know dreams are just dreams, but they bother me so much. All I can do after the dreams is really feel terribly insecure with the way I look. I really feel excess fat, and I feel like I’m not very good enough.
Please help guys! No non-severe answers or I will report you!
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Solution by Danielle M
I would just say it exhibits insecurities in your partnership. Like you are afraid of that really occurring. I have had a couple of dreams like that about my husband so I know how upsetting they are. Maybe you are just afraid of becoming abandoned. On the other hand, if factors in your partnership are Really very good perhaps it is the anxiety of waiting for a thing undesirable to occur. No matter what the reason, I never feel there’s anything you can do to stop these dreams. Just try to keep in mind that they’re only dreams and not to let them effect your existence.
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I’m pretty sure it is normal to have these dreams! I mean think about it, we all have dreams about the things in life we care about, obviously in your situation you love your boyfriend very much!
I used to have dreams like that as well when I was with my girlfriend! But when you dream it is just your brain getting rid of useless information, that’s what my professor said in Psychology anyway! So I don’t think you have anything to worry about!
Now if you want to not have these dreams I suggest you talk to a professional, or try Lucid Dreaming!
Does that sort of answer your question? I hope so…
I think that your worried that in the future he will cheat on you.
It’s what every couple thinks. So you stress about that alot which makes your brian take in that stress and makes you image and over dramatic about that stuff.