My Ex Has Moved On, So Why Can’t I?

My Ex Is Over Me

“My ex is over me” is a line that almost all of us have either said or heard at least once.  Recently ended relationships tend to have some awkward power of most people’s emotions.  Even when you are happy that you and your significant other have broken up, you may tend to want your ex to want you back.  This goes for people whom have zero desire to have their ex back in their lives.  It’s probably just because you still want to have some kind of power over your ex’s heart.  When your ex is over you and it bothers you, it means one of two things usually; either you aren’t over your ex, or you want to have that power over your ex still.

My Ex Is Dating Someone Else

“My ex is dating someone else and it’s bothering me” you say?  Well, it shouldn’t, the two of you aren’t together.  And even if he/she is the one who ended the relationship and you still want your ex back, you need to understand that, at least for now, the relationship is over.  You can’t be upset that your ex is dating someone else, you have to accept the fact that your ex is with someone else now.

My Ex Is Engaged And My Ex Is Getting Married

“I can’t believe that my ex is engaged and getting married already.”  Well they are.  End of story, it’s pretty much curtains for you at this point.  I imagine that you had lots of fantasies awhile back about you being the one that your ex was engaged to, however, you aren’t.  You need to move on and find a new love (or even a hobby, if you aren’t ready for love just yet).  You’re ex has found a new love and they are determined to move on and find happiness with that new person.  At this point you need to accept that your ex is engaged and he/she isn’t coming back to you.

My Ex Is Pregnant

“My ex is pregnant” is another statement we here on a regular basis.  It sounds like she’s has either fully moved on or she has made some careless decisions with another man.  Unless, of course, the baby is yours.  If the baby is yours, this may pose a whole new set of problems between you and your ex.  You have a lot of decision making to do at this point.  You may have just put yourself in a position of life-long communication with someone you can’t have relationship with.  This is not a good scenario.  All you can do at this point is make your decisions very carefully and move forward with a positive attitude in hopes that you can get through the situation with as little friction as possible.

My Ex Has Moved On, Why Can’t I?

“My ex has moved on, why can’t I?”  You probably feel upset about this fact simply because you feel as though you may have lost some sort of romantic, emotional battle between the two of you.  You might even feel that it isn’t fair; however, what you need to understand is that if your ex has completely moved on, then you definitely need to as well.  Did you break up with them or did they break up with you?  If you broke up with them, then you should have moved on much faster than your ex.  If not, then you probably shouldn’t have broken it off in the first place.  If your ex broke up with you, then you need to come to the understanding that your ex doesn’t want to be with you.  You need to occupy your mind so that you can get these negative emotions out of your mind and focus on the positives in your life.  You need to find an outlet that will help you move on as well.  Your ex has moved on and so should you.