I wrote a letter to wife about her cheating husband, should I send it?
Query by simple: I wrote a letter to wife about her cheating husband, must I send it?
Her husband was cheating on her, truly sexually abused me even, and now I have made a decision to inform his wife simply because I feel sorry for her for not understanding. How can I send the letter to make confident SHE opens it and not her husband?
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Answer by mommy2be2009
sort up her title and add, make it appear like its coming from a firm is the only issue i can think of
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Yes definitely send it. The wife should know. As for registered mail, I sent that once, paid extra money to a specific person in a company and they let just anyone open it. You should go directly to her and hand it to her. If I were you I would tell the police they will investigate it, why did you even get close to a married man?
You don’t what the abuse is – that matters. If you are hurt that is one thing. You have no business ruining this marriage. Keep your kickers up and mind your own business.
I think that you need to personally give it to her. Tell her what has happened and that you felt she was important enough to have the truth given to her. But be ready, at first she may dismiss you or even be angry. So do it with a loving heart and not out of malice or anger. Just tell her that you felt she had the right to know. I agree with another poster that sending her the letter certified can be opened and signed by anyone. One thing I would take into consideration would be if the Guy is dangerous?! If he is, maybe you shouldn’t go to her, you don’t wanna cause her or yourself any harm. You might need to talk with a therapist or a trusted adult, to hash out the specifics on this dilema and what would be the best outcome for all parties involved. Best of luck.
Why a letter? Can you talk with her in person? what do you mean by sexually abused? are u under age? Ok, maybe Instead of writting a letter If I was you, I would try to make an appoinment with her to talk face to face. Also be careful if the husband finds out who told her about it. Do you have a way to prove it? well, just be extremely careful you have to be convincing enough because I have seen and know women that won’t believe anything that someone else would have to say about their hubbies. She may ended the friendship with you if you are not careful enough.
You get what you deserve when you mess with a married man… my guess is he got lucky and moved on and now you want to hurt an innocent woman for revenge.
Keep your legs closed to married men and leave the wife alone.