I caught my girlfriend cheating on me with my best friend. How can I make sure our friendship isn’t damaged?
Question by Anti-Republican Forces: I caught my girlfriend cheating on me with my finest buddy. How can I make confident our friendship is not broken?
I identified out just yesterday that my girlfriend has been cheating on me with my best friend. I am incredibly disappointed in her and I’m breaking up with her. How do I make confident the friendship between my greatest buddy and I is not ruined?
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Answer by Melissa
The friendship IS broken. If he was truly your pal, he wouldn’t have done that to you. Do not just allow him blame the girl–it was a mutual act of betrayal.
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ii DON’T KNOW WHY YOU WOULDN’T BE PiSSED OFF AT YOUR BF BUT iF YOU WANT TO SAVE YOUR FRiENDSHiP YOU NEED TO TALK TO HiM & LET HiM KNOW THAT YOUR PUTTiNG YOUR FRiENDSHiP FiRST & THAT YOUR NOT GOiNG TO LET THiS iNCiDENT RUiN YOUR FRiENDSHiP!
Are you serious? What he did was WORSE than what she did. The same thing happened to me when I was a very young man. I then did something to him that caused me to spend 12 years in a State Pen. It’s damaged already. But for your own sake, just move on and dont ever talk to either of them again. They have ruined their own kharma for years to come.
Let me get this straight – is was NOT OK for HER, but it is OK for HIM??? How do you figure?
If this happened to ME, they BOTH would be in the hospital and I would not even consider EVER even TALKING to either one of them!!!
Well, don’t be surprised if your “friend” does this to you each and every time you get with a girl – cos if you let this go, it is a good as telling him it is OK for him to do again.
HEY wake up, the guy you call your Best friend was sleeping with YOUR girl, He is not your Best friend or any kind of friend … Loose that LOOOOOSEr , Like NOW
TWELVE YEARS? HOW?
This recently happened to me. This is the ultimate form of betrayal. What have you got left….when the 2 most important people in your life betray you? Who can you turn to?
I knew her for 2.5 years and him for 9 years.
I am devastated. The pain is unbearable.
They are both equally to blame. And they both seemed like the kind of people who would never do something like this.
I don’t know…I’m so hurt I can’t even get out of bed anymore.