How do you handle a cake-eating, fence sitting cheating husband?
Question by whyme: How do you handle a cake-eating, fence sitting cheating husband?
A cheating husband who seems to be more confused than the triangle he created. Him wanting the best of both worlds. Him living with his mistress and then coming home to his wife to visit his daughter. He has neither divorced his wife nor married his other woman. The confusion must eat him up alive, but this is the life he created. What must go through his mind daily before he goes to sleep. Does he actually ask himself to make a final decision before he goes to bed? The lovely daughter caught between it all. I believe his loves daughter more than life its self and playing the both of them.
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Answer by Happy-2
I wonder why his wife is waiting for him to divorce her.
I also wonder why the mistress doesn’t understand that if he married her, what she will have is a man who has proven conclusively that it is within his character to cheat on his spouse.
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Really men like this think they r having fun and that u r trying to sabotage him, they really r delusional. The only thing that will wake him up is if u get the backbone to get up and leave him and dont turn back.
KICK HIM TO THE CURB!!
I would totally alienate him….he’d have plenty of time to figure that mess out on his own.
no i bet he doesn’t sleep
I doubt he is confused. He is more likely relieved that he is getting away with having his cake and eating it too. You are 100% right. His daughter is the victim but apparently this guy doesn’t have much of a conscience…
Hand him divorce papers and leave if he is cheating.
Why wouldn’t the wife divorce HIM because of infidelity? Why is the wife passively sitting back and letting this happen? The wife is also setting a poor example for her daughter by allowing her husband to behave like this. Moreover, the wife is allowing her daughter to be caught in the middle of all of this.
The wife needs to dump this jerk and remove the daughter from this unhealthy lifestyle. The wife needs to prove that she’s a strong, healthy woman to her daughter. She needs to be a positive role model.
Somebody needs to stop the madness. Either he needs to divorce, or reconcile. He will slowly kill all feelings of trust in his daughter, or set the example for her that anything goes…and when she turns out just like him, he’ll be sorry
well i certainly hope you are not the wife giving him sex.
he wants as much sex as he can get from the slut.
he is deciding is it cheaper to keep the wife and not pay child support.
i dint know when my husband had an affair, after i found out i asked him how could he do that knowing i am at home with our child?
he said ‘you din’t enter into it’.
men can be cold bastards, if you’re the wife divorce him.
i agree with happy 2 ..
why are you waiting for him to take action.
Your letting him have his cake and eat it to. not his fault if he can get away with it. your letting him get away with it.
I guess when you truely had enought you will leave.
I don’t think he asks anything
he probley says.. She still hasn’t done anything. Wow she is a push over I married the right one my mistress wouldn’t allow this.
How to handle this guy:
Wife divorces husband. Wife gets custody of daughter, with visitation, of course. But, if he’s living w/girlfriend, I believe it’s too soon for daughter to meet girlfriend. Personal opinion!
When you say “Comes home to wife to visit daughter” Is he coming home to visit daughter or coming home to wife/sleeping w/wife/trying to mend things with wife and visiting daughter?
I don’t believe once a cheater always a cheater…but girlfriend needs to figure out what this guy is about. Is he really going home to visit daughter or trying to get back with wife?
If he’s really confused, he needs to take a break from everyone BUT his daughter and go from there!
If you don’t like it, take away his cake and push him off the fence.
He can’t take advantage of you if you don’t let him.
Well, both women are allowing him to act this way so he does. Until someone stands up for themselves and takes action he’s sitting pretty – not at all conflicted.
Are you sure your screen name isn’t “Whyne”?