Are infidelity and novelty of being in a relationship wearing off big reasons why the divorce rates are high?

Query by : Are infidelity and novelty of becoming in a relationship wearing off big factors why the divorce rates are substantial?
Are infidelity and novelty of being in a partnership wearing off large factors why the divorce rates are so large today

When I say novelty wearing off, I imply, when the passion dies down, they fall out of enjoy, and therefore, break up? And we know about infidelity. What do you say? Why or why not, for these two causes?

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I feel it’s because women aren’t taking any crap any a lot more. For centuries females have been doormats, abused, utilised, cheated on, not permitted to do something but have children and be a maid and cook. Now women have choices, and when they experience like they have had enough, they end it. That is how it should be.

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  1. There are many reasons of divorce, the main one in my opinion is people that shouldnt have gotten married on the first place.

    Novelty wears off, obviously, (that’s why it’s called novelty) and passion does too. A couple has to have a commitment to renew their lives and sexuality every so often to keep it from becoming too boring.

    Lack of sexual knowledge and communication is another source of infidelity and divorce. Many couples are afraid of speakign what they actually like and they fall on societys accepted standards for sex. In other cases, the other person is not willing to please or listen to his or her partners likes. Over the years, this can lead to a lot of resentment.

    Finances and housekeeping are also important over a very long period of time. If you hate picking up your partner’s laundry, or if you hate not having a space of your own that you can have as dirty as you want, over the years its also a cause of resentment. The same with money, if you pay for your girl for a few dates, its not bad, but paying for her for years and years when she has a job is also frustrating.

    Most couples dont talk and agree about these things until after you’re married. Then you discover that you’re never going to be sexually satisfied, that you’ll end up paying for everything for the rest of your life, or that you’ll end up washing all the clothes.

  2. every one has freedom of choose to be happy..of course if the relationship end up novelty and breaks up..and their is no happiness..like one of them find out are not infidelity.of the kind of relationship..will of course end up divorce…you cannot force some one like hold up or forcing to stay the relationship..if nothing.worth..i understand why divorce is excess. and why to force to someone??? what for..sacrament of religion?? we talking freedom of choose not religion..happiness is the most important thing..of the relationship and responsibilities..

  3. the passion only dies out if u let it. it is up to both parties to keep the spark alive.in my opinion the divorce rates are hihg because:
    1lack of communication im the marriage
    2 daily lives to busy, no alone time
    3 married for the wrong reasons (money, getting pregnant, marriage too soon)
    4 drug addictions
    5 economic hardships
    the passion only dies out if u let it. it is up to both parties to keep the spark alive.in my opinion the divorce rates are hihg because:
    1lack of communication im the marriage
    2 daily lives to busy, no alone time
    3 married for the wrong reasons (money, getting pregnant, marriage too soon)
    4 drug addictions
    5 economic hardships

  4. Infidelity counts for almost 50 per cent of why marriages are dissolved. The other in theory is communication, we often as people tend to get comfortable with each other in a marriage, and we forget that a marriage takes working on everyday, and that counts for both partners involved. When one is not happy? Is the other than able to meet the other person’s needs?. Its about compromise, understanding, respect and through time a relationship is not so exciting as it was in the beginning, its about adjusting to each other, and standing by the person no matter what. Take the good with the bad. Everyone has flaws.

    Infidelity, domestic violence and communication breakdown is the main issues in divorce cases. Domestic violence i agree leave, no one deserves that, maybe why we have to make sure we look for warning signs before getting married. People who are very controlling, jealous or possessive are more likely to be perpetrators of domestic violence. Personally i believe people see the signs but choose to ignore them. Again we can not change people, but we can choose how we spend our lives. Infidelity has always been present through the times and now women do not have to rely on men so they leave, and often it is the women who is the perpetrator as well. Communication is vital so make sure you know someone and you communicate well and there is not to many warning signs like them being secretive and dishonest. Depending on the reason. Take your time getting to know someone before contemplating marriage is my best advice. Honesty is vital in a marriage.

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